Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Random..so random
I just feel the need to get back on the blog bandwagon, so that's what I'm doing. I have nothing to write about. Let's see.
So I have been sick the past week, and I have been trying to decide just how sick I have been. It was just a cold, thank goodness, not the flu or H1N1 or strep or anything terribly nasty. But it lingers like this evolving irritant - last Saturday it was a sore throat, sometimes it's been full out disgusting, and some morning I just feel like I am going to pass out. But it is really just a cold, which kind of make me feel like a baby. But I am just a squishy human after all. Nothing to do about that.
I need to start writing my friends and family. I have received so many sweet gifts, cards, and calls from them this holiday season, and I can't seem to get it together and return the joy of their well wishes.
It make me sound like a horrible person, but it is part of my social anxiety I guess. I want to write them the nicest cards, get them the most thoughtful gifts, and so I procrastinate. Well, that needs to stop. It is one of my best friend's birthdays this week, so time to ante up. I can't wait to get my Christmas goodies in the mail, so I can start making more collage cards. How relaxing and fun was that?
So I have been feeling so bored these past few days, but when I actually sat down and made any inventory of stuff to buy, stuff to see/do around the area, and errands I need to run/goals I need to meet, I couldn't stop writing. It's like with me life is either zero or one-eighty degrees, and I don't operate well in good balance. Or I am like my car, and it takes a good couple of presses on the accelerator to actually switch up gears. Sigh. At least one of my wonderful gifts was this beautiful homemade notebook from Jojo. I am using it as a literal notebook - I tracked my schedule and mid-month budget today, and it is surprising how just finding a physical space for my "to-do's" helps so much. Thanks for the motivation (and the consideration) Jojo!
Also, in this randomness, I would like take the time to show random appreciation to fate. A couple of weeks ago, I was Skyping with S, and I was in the kitchen simultaneously making myself a snack of frijoles verdes with green salsa (read: green beans with green goop on top).
So I take my concoction out of the microwave and promptly spill it/slosh it out over my netbook's teeny type pad. Ick!!! So I am yelling to S about this (his Skype face is inches from disaster) and so so worried that my typepad will get messed up and my keys will not work anymore. And right after Skype, despite my drying them off the whole time with paper towels and dish rags, the keys start short circuiting! So I do what I know to do, and break out my hair dryer and start drying the keys. It seems useless. I bought a warrantee on this thing that I do not think extends to "spilling the beans." So I do that for 20 minutes, see no improvements in my keyboard (it types "jkzcfgbnou0-no" and such for the letter "e"), and then I turn off my computer and cry. BUT the next morning it's working again - like new, except that their is still some green salsa I am sure under the space bar, which makes it hard to not smoosh my words up when I type fast. So THANK YOU fate, for not allowing my clumsiness to totally, utterly wreck my connection to the outside world. I do appreciate it.
And that is my random blog.
So I have been sick the past week, and I have been trying to decide just how sick I have been. It was just a cold, thank goodness, not the flu or H1N1 or strep or anything terribly nasty. But it lingers like this evolving irritant - last Saturday it was a sore throat, sometimes it's been full out disgusting, and some morning I just feel like I am going to pass out. But it is really just a cold, which kind of make me feel like a baby. But I am just a squishy human after all. Nothing to do about that.I need to start writing my friends and family. I have received so many sweet gifts, cards, and calls from them this holiday season, and I can't seem to get it together and return the joy of their well wishes.
It make me sound like a horrible person, but it is part of my social anxiety I guess. I want to write them the nicest cards, get them the most thoughtful gifts, and so I procrastinate. Well, that needs to stop. It is one of my best friend's birthdays this week, so time to ante up. I can't wait to get my Christmas goodies in the mail, so I can start making more collage cards. How relaxing and fun was that?So I have been feeling so bored these past few days, but when I actually sat down and made any inventory of stuff to buy, stuff to see/do around the area, and errands I need to run/goals I need to meet, I couldn't stop writing. It's like with me life is either zero or one-eighty degrees, and I don't operate well in good balance. Or I am like my car, and it takes a good couple of presses on the accelerator to actually switch up gears. Sigh. At least one of my wonderful gifts was this beautiful homemade notebook from Jojo. I am using it as a literal notebook - I tracked my schedule and mid-month budget today, and it is surprising how just finding a physical space for my "to-do's" helps so much. Thanks for the motivation (and the consideration) Jojo!
Also, in this randomness, I would like take the time to show random appreciation to fate. A couple of weeks ago, I was Skyping with S, and I was in the kitchen simultaneously making myself a snack of frijoles verdes with green salsa (read: green beans with green goop on top).
So I take my concoction out of the microwave and promptly spill it/slosh it out over my netbook's teeny type pad. Ick!!! So I am yelling to S about this (his Skype face is inches from disaster) and so so worried that my typepad will get messed up and my keys will not work anymore. And right after Skype, despite my drying them off the whole time with paper towels and dish rags, the keys start short circuiting! So I do what I know to do, and break out my hair dryer and start drying the keys. It seems useless. I bought a warrantee on this thing that I do not think extends to "spilling the beans." So I do that for 20 minutes, see no improvements in my keyboard (it types "jkzcfgbnou0-no" and such for the letter "e"), and then I turn off my computer and cry. BUT the next morning it's working again - like new, except that their is still some green salsa I am sure under the space bar, which makes it hard to not smoosh my words up when I type fast. So THANK YOU fate, for not allowing my clumsiness to totally, utterly wreck my connection to the outside world. I do appreciate it.And that is my random blog.
Achoo!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Happy 2010
I am so thankful for the year 2009. In it I saw one of my best friends get married, and I got to experience her family's beautiful culture in a big way on New Year's 2009.
I wrote a thesis, finished graduate school, and saw the first bi-racial US president sworn into office.
I worked three jobs simultaneously and did pysch experiments in order to get pocket money for Starbucks. I adopted a cat, and lived in a Baltimore row house for a month.
I became a vegetarian and have only eaten a few pieces of chicken, one hot dog, some Slim Jim's, and some accidental "sweet bread" and shrimp the whole year. So I saved our environment over a ton *literally* of carbon emissions. In sheer size and quantity, it's by far my biggest accomplishment this year.
I also moved to New England like I've wanted to for a decade and met, very surprisingly, my financial goals for the year to get a job that I love making X amount of money and to start a personal retirement account so I don't have to rely on stocks or a 401K. I am entering 2010 with no credit card debt, after an extremely tumultuous financial year. It's not without it's ups and downs (pro: I witnessed a beautiful New England autumn; con: through my windshield mostly during my 45 minute commutes down the interstate to work), but this choice was the right choice for me, and I love my life here.
I have laughed much with friends and family, and have kept those I love near to me. I don't know where I would be or what I would do without them.
I have gotten closer to God and more bold in loving God in so many different ways this year. Making peace with the peace that indwells all of us is a life-long journey, and now I can pursue it with full confidence.
So it has not been a wasted year. It started out half-way across the world, and it feels in some ways like I have been running the distance back home. But in 2010, I anticipate a steady stream of goodness to come from the world around me and my interaction with all beings. I want to appreciate my blessings and live purely in them, giving back to them the joy they give to me.
I hope you find this time a continuation of the good things in your life and turning point of fuller peace and contentment in the place where you are, in each moment of 2010.

I wrote a thesis, finished graduate school, and saw the first bi-racial US president sworn into office.
I worked three jobs simultaneously and did pysch experiments in order to get pocket money for Starbucks. I adopted a cat, and lived in a Baltimore row house for a month.
I became a vegetarian and have only eaten a few pieces of chicken, one hot dog, some Slim Jim's, and some accidental "sweet bread" and shrimp the whole year. So I saved our environment over a ton *literally* of carbon emissions. In sheer size and quantity, it's by far my biggest accomplishment this year.
I also moved to New England like I've wanted to for a decade and met, very surprisingly, my financial goals for the year to get a job that I love making X amount of money and to start a personal retirement account so I don't have to rely on stocks or a 401K. I am entering 2010 with no credit card debt, after an extremely tumultuous financial year. It's not without it's ups and downs (pro: I witnessed a beautiful New England autumn; con: through my windshield mostly during my 45 minute commutes down the interstate to work), but this choice was the right choice for me, and I love my life here.
I have laughed much with friends and family, and have kept those I love near to me. I don't know where I would be or what I would do without them.
I have gotten closer to God and more bold in loving God in so many different ways this year. Making peace with the peace that indwells all of us is a life-long journey, and now I can pursue it with full confidence.
So it has not been a wasted year. It started out half-way across the world, and it feels in some ways like I have been running the distance back home. But in 2010, I anticipate a steady stream of goodness to come from the world around me and my interaction with all beings. I want to appreciate my blessings and live purely in them, giving back to them the joy they give to me.I hope you find this time a continuation of the good things in your life and turning point of fuller peace and contentment in the place where you are, in each moment of 2010.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Footie Suspenders
In light of the beautiful snow storm pictorial outside of my living room windows, it is appropriate to make a joke about footie suspenders.

I do not, on principle, like these kinds of boots. I had a really cute pair of them awhile ago when when they were new.
They were Tiffany blue, not camel like everyone's these days, and they were a present. But as with leggings, which I wear to the gym and around the house but otherwise have a certain wariness of, these boots became too trendy, and now they adorn all ladies legs it seems
, ages 8 months to 38 years or so.

But in full disclosure, I now own 2 pairs of said-style boots. It happened out of necessity - I acquired my first pair from a Target when in need of appropriate foot attire to stand in the freezing cold of the Washington Mall for 10 or so hours during the Obama inauguration. These little black boots were the least expensive alternative I could find, and roomy enough to fit several pairs of socks underneath them. So enough said.

Next, on my recent trip to Baltimore, I was packing very light. Only there for a day, I brought a single pair of shoes, ballet flats, to serve as my airport shoes, the shoes I wore to the gym, my shoes for all my appointments out, etc.
Too bad it was torrentially raining once I got out of my appointments and headed back on the bus to grab a meal and relax at the hotel. By the early evening, hours before my flight, my feet were soaking and squishy, and my shoes un-dry-able. This is when I made the pseudo-desperate decision to book it to the nearest Payless Shoe Source and find, yet again, the least expensive pair of cozy foot-muffs I could. Enter a new pair of these silly boots, this time chocolate brown.
And though it pains me to own these boots, which make me automatically think of 12-year-old mean girls every time I wear them, they are several things I admit - basic, easy, cozy, warm.
Living in a crazy place called New England, where they don't even bother to let it stop blizzarding before they shovel the snow off the ground (?!?), I pretty much need these boots. I should be thankful for these boots. But then enter the footie suspenders.
Remember stirrup pants for little girls and occasionally their elementary school teachers to wear with a baggy sweater?
Well, in case you want to re-live those days with a pair of faddy boots, go right ahead. In fact, it's a necessity, that if you don't want your jeans to look funky tucked into your big old clunky boots, you need to refashion them into stirrup pants and re-live the second grade.
Honestly, I am no one's judge in terms of fashion. In fact, the more funky the better, and everyone is entitled to their own personal style. But I am just saying if you have to stirrup your pants to make your Clydesdale feet look cooler this winter, I am not of your kindred.
PS - O and I got into our first snowball fight this morning, and guess who won? That's right - go opposable thumbs!!

I do not, on principle, like these kinds of boots. I had a really cute pair of them awhile ago when when they were new.
They were Tiffany blue, not camel like everyone's these days, and they were a present. But as with leggings, which I wear to the gym and around the house but otherwise have a certain wariness of, these boots became too trendy, and now they adorn all ladies legs it seemsBut in full disclosure, I now own 2 pairs of said-style boots. It happened out of necessity - I acquired my first pair from a Target when in need of appropriate foot attire to stand in the freezing cold of the Washington Mall for 10 or so hours during the Obama inauguration. These little black boots were the least expensive alternative I could find, and roomy enough to fit several pairs of socks underneath them. So enough said.

Next, on my recent trip to Baltimore, I was packing very light. Only there for a day, I brought a single pair of shoes, ballet flats, to serve as my airport shoes, the shoes I wore to the gym, my shoes for all my appointments out, etc.
Too bad it was torrentially raining once I got out of my appointments and headed back on the bus to grab a meal and relax at the hotel. By the early evening, hours before my flight, my feet were soaking and squishy, and my shoes un-dry-able. This is when I made the pseudo-desperate decision to book it to the nearest Payless Shoe Source and find, yet again, the least expensive pair of cozy foot-muffs I could. Enter a new pair of these silly boots, this time chocolate brown.And though it pains me to own these boots, which make me automatically think of 12-year-old mean girls every time I wear them, they are several things I admit - basic, easy, cozy, warm.
Living in a crazy place called New England, where they don't even bother to let it stop blizzarding before they shovel the snow off the ground (?!?), I pretty much need these boots. I should be thankful for these boots. But then enter the footie suspenders.
Remember stirrup pants for little girls and occasionally their elementary school teachers to wear with a baggy sweater?
Well, in case you want to re-live those days with a pair of faddy boots, go right ahead. In fact, it's a necessity, that if you don't want your jeans to look funky tucked into your big old clunky boots, you need to refashion them into stirrup pants and re-live the second grade.
Honestly, I am no one's judge in terms of fashion. In fact, the more funky the better, and everyone is entitled to their own personal style. But I am just saying if you have to stirrup your pants to make your Clydesdale feet look cooler this winter, I am not of your kindred.
PS - O and I got into our first snowball fight this morning, and guess who won? That's right - go opposable thumbs!!
Saturday, December 19, 2009
S & D: A fond look back
As the year draws to a close, and I embark on the birthdays of first S, then me, I am looking back and finding myself very thankful for the time we've had together so far.While I have high hopes that the next decade will bring us perhaps even fonder memories then the last, there are some great times behind us:
Being the subject of a nationally syndicated news article
Going to New York City and covering Madison Square Garden, Broadway, Times Square, China Town, Staten Island, Rockefeller Center, Central Park, and The Met in under 24 hours
Scrap-booking
Raising a hamster
Raising a cat
Buying our Christmas tree at Walmart
Fighting about Ted Kennedy breaking up the minimum wage filibuster
Halloween as Soulja Boy and Soulja Girl
Mount Vernon
The salmon dinner at J's
...so many, many more.
This year, S and I get the privilege of spending our first New Year's as a couple together, after over 3-and-a-half years together. One year we did talk over the phone as the ball dropped, but we were in different cities, and two of the three years we were on different continents.
This year we will be in my favorite southern state, and the activity of choice will be a tradition of ours, dress-up bowling. This is exactly what it sounds like, going to a bowling alley in your sophisticated party clothes, jacket optional, high-heels not-so-much, and adding to the ensemble your competitive spirit. I am the reigning champion, but maybe S will find himself luckier this time around. I'll be lucky just to be there having the time of my life.
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Someone caved...
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